Tools for the Fight: My Lesson from Friday Night

Readers!

I promised you that if my lesson went well on Friday night I would post the notes from it on here! So here they are.

Main Idea: We naturally drawn to sin, but we have ways to avoid and protect yourself from sin. 

  1. Our Never Ending Battle with Sin.
    1. The Bible tells us over and over that we are sinful to the core.
      1. Genesis 6:5 — “The Lord saw that the wickedness of man was great in the earth, and that every intention of the thoughts of his heart was only evil continually.”
      2. Ephesian 2:1-2 — “And you were dead in the trespasses and sins in which you once walked, following the course of this world, following the prince of the power of the air, the spirit that is now at work in the sons of disobedience”
      3. This is an idea that most Christians are familiar with. Our relation of our sin drives us to our need for a Savior.
        1. There is nothing we can do to solve our problem with sin on our own.
        2. This is where Christ steps in.
          1. Ephesians 2:4-5 — “But God, being rich in mercy, because of the great love with which he loved us, even when we were dead in our trespasses, made us alive together with Christ— by grace you have been saved”
          2. 2 Corinthians 5:21 — “For our sake he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God”  
        3. Christ pays for the Eternal Consequences of sin for us!
          1. But does the means that we no longer desire to sin? By no means! Even Paul struggles with the impulse and desire to sin.
            1. Romans 7:18-20 — “For I know that nothing good dwells in me, that is, in my flesh. For I have the desire to do what is right, but not the ability to carry it out. For I do not do the good I want, but the evil I do not want is what I keep on doing. Now if I do what I do not want, it is no longer I who do it, but sin that dwells within me”
          2. We are called to Fight the Sin in our lives.
            1. 1 Timothy 6:11-12 — But as for you, O man of God, flee these things. Pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, gentleness. Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called and about which you made the good confession in the presence of many witnesses”
            2. 2 Timothy 2:22 — “So flee youthful passions and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace, along with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart”
          3. We must daily fight sin in our lives! But the Lord has given up two excellent tools to fight sin with!
            1. A New Identity
            2. A New Community
  2. Our New Identity
    1. Let’s start with 2 Corinthians 5:17 — “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come”
      1. When we are in Christ, we become NEW! (This happens when the Holy Spirit come to us.)
        1. The Old has passed away and the new has come.
          1. So what is this new that we are?
            1. Ephesians 1:3-12 – [This is a BIG chunk, but what is says about us as Christians, and its important.] “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love he predestined us for adoption as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will, to the praise of his glorious grace, with which he has blessed us in the Beloved. In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace, which he lavished upon us, in all wisdom and insight making known to us the mystery of his will, according to his purpose, which he set forth in Christ as a plan for the fullness of time, to unite all things in him, things in heaven and things on earth. In him we have obtained an inheritance, having been predestined according to the purpose of him who works all things according to the counsel of his will, so that we who were the first to hope in Christ might be to the praise of his glory”
              1. Blessed with every spiritual blessing. 
              2. Chosen
              3. Holy
              4. Blameless
              5. Adopted as sons and daughters
              6. Blessed
              7. Redeemed
              8. Forgiven
              9. Lavished with Grace
              10. United with Christ
              11. Obtained an Inheritance
              12. Hope
            2. This is what God says has been given to us, through Christ, that we are given when we become Christians, submit to the Lord and walk in the life He has planned for us.
          2. But why does knowing our identity help us fight sin.
            1. This world often bases our identity on others and how they view us.
              1. Have you ever doubted yourself and your identity because of what another person, or society, says about you?
              2. Or, have you ever done something you didn’t want to, or that you knew was wrong, to gain others approval?
            2. Do you see how our identity matters! When our identity is questioned, we question our worth.
              1. When we feel worthless, we will often stop at nothing to stop feeling this way.
              2. Some sinful ways that this shows in our lives are:
                1. Taking 100’s of selfies in order to look “just perfect” before posting.
                2. Giving up our standards and purity in relationships to please the other person.
                3. Compromising our morals to save a relationship.
                4. Giving up Church or Time with God for other things like school, sleep or video games.
              3. These situations can lead us into sins like these because we are looking to relationships or people for our worth and identity.
                1. Busyness
                2. Laziness
                3. Vanity
                4. Drunkenness
                5. Sexual Immorality
              4. But why? – We put the thoughts and opinions of other, and what they say about us, before what God says about us, we do not walk in our identity that God has give us.
                1. This is why we must remember what God says about us and believe the Word of God over the World.
                2. We must seek what God says about us over what the world says!
                  1. When we trust God’s identity for us over the world’s, then we are free from trying to constantly impress others.
              5. I can share from personal experience – When I was younger, I was so worried about what other people thought of me that it was all that I could ever think about. It caused depression, anxiety and overwhelming selfishness in my life, trying to live up to the image I wanted them to see, and to be enough for them. But when I gave it up and chose to Believe what God says about me instead, there was such freedom. I don’t worry as much, so I can think about others more. I am more aware of when others are hurting or more focused on what is happening around me, and less focused on what people are thinking of me. It is such a relief.
  1. Our New Community
    1. We were never intended to live our lives in Faith by ourselves.
      1. Even all the way back in Genesis, in the Garden of Eden, God does not leave Adam alone, but gives him a companion because it wasn’t good that he was alone.
      2. Ecclesiastics 4:9-12 — Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up! Again, if two lie together, they keep warm, but how can one keep warm alone? And though a man might prevail against one who is alone, two will withstand him—a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”
        1. This verse shows how when we fall or are overcome, if we are alone we will fail. But if we have others around us, they can lift us up and help us withstand.
          1. We help strengthen each other because we need each other!
      3. God gives an great example of what Christian Community should look like.
        1. Acts 2:42-47 — “And they devoted themselves to the apostles ‘ teaching and the fellowship, to the breaking of bread and the prayers. And awe came upon every soul, and many wonders and signs were being done through the apostles. And all who believed were together and had all things in common. And they were selling their possessions and belongings and distributing the proceeds to all, as any had need. And day by day, attending the temple together and breaking bread in their homes, they received their food with glad and generous hearts, praising God and having favor with all the people. And the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved”
        2. This is a familiar passage for most of us, but let us take a deeper look at it. What elements are highlighted about this group?
          1. Devoted to Teaching (Studying together)
          2. Fellowship
          3. Prayer
          4. Provided for one another
          5. Attended services together
          6. Shared meals and life together
          7. Praising God
        3. It this what your friendships with other Christians looks like?
          1. Do you study the Bible together?
          2. Do you talk about what you have been learning in scripture together?
          3. Do you pray for one another often?
          4. Do we take care of each other when we need help?
          5. Do we truly share life together?
        4. Does another Christian truly know you and do you know someone else?
          1. When I say know, I mean does anyone know your struggles, the sins you battle, the doubts you have, the dreams your have?
            1. James 5:16 — “Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.”
        5. When we are known by other believers:
          1. We stand stronger in our faith
          2. We grow stronger in our ability to withstand temptation to sin
          3. We are reminded of Truth when we begin to doubt, or question our identity.
        6. We need community to persevere. This is how we persevere. This close community is gift from the Lord, but one we ignore too often.

Well… There it is. I hope you enjoy it.

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2 thoughts on “Tools for the Fight: My Lesson from Friday Night

  1. Just want to say Morgan, what you taught was amazing!!!!!!!!!!! I had many take-aways myself! Keep it up girlfriend! You are being mightily used!!! Love you and miss you!!!!!!!!!!!
    PS Absolutely loved all the scripture!!!

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